Kuite09 Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 Okay so as some of you guys may know my story.... Its been since March that my ex of 7yrs broke up. We have had limited contact here and there since then and he is currently seeing someone at the moment even though he told me he still loves me and misses me etc because it was so much history and feelings are still there. I havnt seen him since May (memorial weekend) I injured my foot and he came to the hospital to see me and take care of me at home. Today I decided to text him and tell him I was thinking about him because I had a dream with him in it and he replied thats funny because a few nights back I had one with you. We texted back and forth and I told him I miss you! He replied with- Thanks, im cautious on how I respond to texts from you now because last time I did tell you I missed you and loved you, you flipped out because of my situation (him dating someone) but you know exactly how I feel the same way you do. I replied with a simple ok and he called me at work, I havnt heard his voice in a month or so. He called to tell me not to assume that he doesnt miss me etc just because I don't hear from him and that those feelings of missing a person don't fade in just a few months. Back in the end of August beginning of September he called to tell me hes been thinking of me and wants to see me soon and here was I super cool about it and happy until I found out he was still with HER and I flipped out on him and that meet up never happened. I got so upset because how can he ask me to hang out if he is still with her. I thought he was asking me to see me cuz so was no longer in the picture but I was wrong. That whole week we argued back and forth and of course me asking him, how could you ? why? etc. I felt like the break up allllll over again. Well the conclusion of todays talk is that I told him I want to see him and he asks why? I was like because I havnt seen you in 5months and would love to catch up. Let me pick the time and day and lets meet up and he said "OKAY" I was not expecting this at all but now I don't know what to think of it? why would he meet up with me if hes with her? My ex is not a jerk or player type hes also not a child, he is a 36 yr old man. So what you guys think about all this? Why you think he accepted my offer? When I havnt seen him in 5 months. Here is my previous thread..... Link to comment
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