blueidealist24 Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 What would you say if your friend, who maybe sort of flirted with you even though they had a gf, asked you to hang out alone (this would have been the first time for that) and then cancelled at the last minute because they said they were sick.. then you message them saying it's ok but they never answer or talk to you for two weeks or so.. and then the next time you talk to them they're polite, but sort of standoffish and leave quickly saying they'll talk to you later. My gut feeling was that the person was really depressed about a personal problem they had talked to me about, not really physically sick, but I'm not going to question it to them. There's also the option though that his gf didn't like him hanging out with another girl alone, because he was going to call her a few hours before she met me and maybe she said something. Btw, his gf was long distance and they might have broken up because a few days ago his facebook status said single. I didn't ask him about it though because I didn't want to be nosy, and he didn't mention it either. Anyway I just still want to be friends with this person.. he's kind of cute but younger than me and I'm not like in love with him or infatuated or anything.. not like the other guy I posted about on here and I don't act weird with him like with that guy in my other posts.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DylanNotorious Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 And? What's your question? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pl3asehelp Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 I would tell him he shouldn't be flirting with me while he's in a relationship because it's disrespectful to both you and his girlfriend and that the two of you will have no contact unless he becomes single. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueidealist24 Posted October 13, 2011 Author Share Posted October 13, 2011 I would tell him he shouldn't be flirting with me while he's in a relationship because it's disrespectful to both you and his girlfriend and that the two of you will have no contact unless he becomes single. Well, I'm not sure if he was flirting or just being friendly. I'm bad at judging these things, often I think someone is just being friendly and I find out they were blatantly flirting with me, while on occasion I have thought people were flirting and they weren't. But anyway I'm just going to wait for him to talk to me again, and not initiate any conversations. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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