night2rmbr Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 Whether it be from your girlfriend, wife, etc... I am just curious, does it feel pretty awesome for guys to have that area explored by their partner? If so, why don't more men ask for it? If you've never tried it, would you stop your partner if she were to go exploring there while in the moment? Even if it felt good? This could be licking, rubbing, or inserting a finger. What if you discussed anal play, said that you would not feel comfortable allowing your girlfriend to go there, but then she did and it felt amazing. Would you be mad at her? What are your thoughts on this people? Men and Women, please share your experiences. Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 i recently did this with my BF, i didn't ask him but i was giving him a bj and was using lots and lots of lube and started exploring the area, he raised his legs and thus giving me the green light, so i played around till he was totally relaxed and inserted my finger while giving him a bj at the same time, he has never been this hard and has never cum more powerful than that time, and he was even able to go for round two, so it was a great experience for both of us, he absolutely loved it and told me so many times, i loved it as well and it was very intimate and a joy to see him so turned on and getting so much pleasure... so we'll do this more often..but it's not for every men i have noticed...some are scared it is gay which makes no sense at all but hey...to each their own Link to comment
lukeb Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 I think that among straight couples there are probably many more women who would want to pleasure guys that way than there are men who like to be pleasured that way. I think you need two things. First physically of course with varying degrees there are the required nerve endings there to get pleasure. You need two things though to enjoy anal stimulation, and that is to like the idea of anal stimulation. If you don't like the idea, you are not going to enjoy it no matter how much you try it. There are also a lot of gay guys out there, they just don't like the idea of getting that area explored there either. A lot of people don't like it for many different reasons. Link to comment
zelder Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 I'm not very interested in anal play. I guess if it felt good and she really wanted to do it I would try. Link to comment
lukeb Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 I'm not very interested in anal play. I guess if it felt good and she really wanted to do it I would try. The thing is you are probably not going to like it if you are not interested in it. Link to comment
meoww Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 I def. know some men enjoy it--I never thought to do it until I was asked to do it actually. I really think it's the gay thing that scares some people. I think it's NBD. You have to be careful not to hurt them though lol. Link to comment
greywolf Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 If a guy wouldn't let me touch him there, it could possibly be a dealbreaker for me. Link to comment
Rangafro Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 I found it to be an acquired taste. I dabbled with it when I was 15 or 16, and was mostly left with the impression of "oh... so that's it... huh". I didn't really bother again until some years later after I had been sexually active. I started to like it on a more psychological level; the taboo aspect and how it flies in the face of typical gender expectations and of sex in general which I suppose gave a different perspective on the physical aspect of it. Rage against the status quo and feel good doing it, in summary. Link to comment
zelder Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 If a guy wouldn't let me touch him there, it could possibly be a dealbreaker for me. I can't understand why that would be a deal breaker. What if he tried it and does not care for it? Do you have an insatiable desire to stick you finger up the anus or is it something else? Link to comment
moondog627 Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 Major LOLs at: Do you have an insatiable desire to stick you finger up the anus or is it something else? Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 It would seem that some men are into it but there will be part of the male population that just wont let their significant other go back there. Link to comment
AnswersPlease Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 I tried it for the first time with my recently ex girlfriend. Whenever she was giving me a blowjob she would use lots of lube, and she'd work her way down further and further. I must say, it's something I enjoyed a lot. Never thought I would be into it but I surprised myself. Sorry if that was too graphic. Link to comment
greywolf Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 I can't understand why that would be a deal breaker. What if he tried it and does not care for it? Do you have an insatiable desire to stick you finger up the anus or is it something else? If he didn't like it, I would be really disappointed. Yes, I do want to be able to do that, but it's more than that as well. If a guy feels like I should get his consent first before I do something to him, then he shouldn't be in a relationship with me. Link to comment
SpottiOtti Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 I love your posts, Greywolf. The irony is exquisite. Link to comment
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