I think I screwed up, how do I make the best of it?

[Mharris]

I've only been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks now, and things have been pretty difficult in regards to finding time to actually hang out, etc... Every time we have hung out it has been like WOW amazing, but our text conversations and phone conversations...well...suck. I'm a pretty good at communicating through these means, but apparently she is not, or our styles don't mesh or something, and so after two weekends in a row getting shot down due to her leaving town, I finally sent her a text that said something along the lines of, "it's cool, i like you and want to hang out with you, but I don't want there to be any pressure, so just do your thing and when you can we will hang out. i'm in no hurry." I was just trying to be honest and take pressure off the situation and let her know that I liked her, and was willing to just be chill about it. I'm not sure how she took this, and things are a bit weird now, at least on my end. I want to talk to her and make sure everything is cool, but am worried that it could come accross as needy. Regardless of what happens I want to remain this girl's friend because I think she is pretty awesome. How do I proceed?? Thanks in advance.

[Dezireey]

Just act normally and contact her and ask her out on a date, then when you are with her you can just show her that you like her rather than talk about it. Just relax and if she goes out on a date with you and you both enjoy yourselves you are both on the right track. I wouldn't worry too much about clashes in communication at this early stage as that will probably get better once you get to know each other more. If she constantly brushes you off though with 'Im busy' excuses about not going out on a date with you e.g about 4 times or something, then just leave it in her corner.