DVDr Posted October 12, 2011 Share Posted October 12, 2011 A few years ago my fiancee and I broke up. We were together a long time and a few months before our wedding, it all collapsed very quickly and we ended up cancelling everything and going our separate ways. It's a few years ago now so the hurt has pretty much subsided, she is living with another and we haven't spoken in almost 2 years. Fine. Here's the thing. A lot of my friends, family and work colleagues etc are bemused as to why I haven't met someone else and formed any meaningful bond with anyone in all of that time. My answer is simple. I met the girl I wanted to marry. I was with the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Ok, for whatever reason, we weren't right for eachother but she WAS the one I had planned to grow old with, and for a long period of time, I was the one for her. To me, marriage is forever and once you meet that person, that's it. So why should I believe there's going to be another? Will someone else come along that makes me feel the same way? Are my friends right? Am I a bit mad, or should I just let destiny run it's course?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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