Charingx1 Posted October 12, 2011 Share Posted October 12, 2011 Ex dumped me 5 months ago after 16 month relationship. Issues around trust I had with her. I begged pleaded for couple weeks. We kissed again around 2.5 months ago but then she said she couldn't get back together, no explanation, just couldn't. I know she has been on a dating site since 3 weeks post break up. I found out she had a date arranged but think he let her down. Anyway, we work together and she emailed once or twice about work stuff, brought a drink into my office for me (bit odd). I then had long periods of holiday and working away so have been absolute no contact for around 2 months. Nothing. And it has really helped. I am not healed but I'm much better. So yesterday was my second day back in the office. I basically go about my day as if she isn't there, we have no reason to talk as not on same team but are in the same office. So I saw her yesterday for first time in weeks and she looked back and smiled. I just said hi and carried on. Then I get an email asking how my promotion is going. I had read advice on here. I was blunt but friendly. She then asks loads of questions about my little boy who she adored and I get dragged into a convo about that. I didn't reply immediately like I used to, in fact I waited until today to reply to the latest. Basically her saying I'm really proud of all your doing for (my son) and saying bet he has fun with you, asking how my ex is with him etc. Went back to being polite and have now left for the day so no doubt tomorrow will have another email, but essentially I'm afraid to say it did get my hopes up again. It seems to me she us fishing for info and is just curious. Probably bored at work too. No mention of meeting etc or anything. In fact I'm not even sure I'd say yes if she asked any more. But it's brought back all these things I thought I'd got over like this weird hope, wondering If she's going to reply etc. I don't want to be rude, my plan is to just cut it off tomorrow, just answer whatever she asks and sort of say glad your ok and stop there. But I can't help that tiny part of me wondering if she is reaching out. Any thoughts or advice or support very welcome! Link to comment
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