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Well, if you're apologizing twice for the same thing.. I'd say don't do it. There's no reason to beat a dead horse. But if this is something that you truly thing will make you feel better, then go for it. Just keep in mind that breaking "no contact" doesn't feel good, so only so it if it's literally unavoidable.

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I did apologize again and it did make me feel better. I talked to her last night...same story I don't know why I keep talking to her there's no point. I'm going to let her know what life is like without me. Strict NC from today on out.


I am strong

I've been going to the gym to get emotionally and physically stronger

it helps that my family goes to the gym with me.


My life is good and it's too bad she doesn't want to be a part of it!

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I'm assuming by our conversation she still has interest in me...but I'm not going to revolve my life around it. If she wants me back she will ask, but my life is going on with or without her.


Its funny right? When you know exactly what you have to do, and what your gameplan should be....and you've read all the posts, and you've thought about it over and over and over and still come to the same conclusions....yet your heart creeps back in every once in a while and tries to convince you otherwise?


remember - you can't use your heart if its broken, stick with your head for now


its like that Simpson's episode where Lisa is having an inner dialogue with her brain, and her brain says "Well, well, well...look who comes crawling back"

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I needed to hear that. I cannot possibly use my heart...it's not so much broken as it is bruised. But really it was both of our faults the relationship went rotten. We were both 3 months out of a long term relationship. She wasn't ready to date..I thought I was. She messed it up in the beginning while we were dating making mistakes. Her family didn't accept her. She would leave several times a year without inviting me to go with them. I would get upset.


I'm only human!

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