dwadegirl Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 Ok, I have 1 more thing to add to my other post. So previously I exchanged #'s with a male stripper a few months ago and we text and talked on the phone a few times. We also have kissed several times, but haven't actually gone out. So the last time I went to the club with a friend, he gave me a free dance in V.I.P. and then later on in the night he was about to leave and asked if he was going to see me at the club that weekend. I told him I don't know and he said "I know I need to call you and talk to you more" and I said "That would be nice, but I know you're busy" (he plays semi pro football). Then he said "I am but I could make some time" and I said "Well if that's something you want to do then you'll do it" and he said "Thank you for understanding" and kissed my hand. Ok, is this his way of trying to get money or could he genuinely be attracted to me? Link to comment
wiseoldwoman Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 Are you giving him money? If so, it's probably his way of getting more. If not, he's probably interested in something else about you. Link to comment
dwadegirl Posted October 11, 2011 Author Share Posted October 11, 2011 If he's onstage I might give him like $10 or something and a dance is like $20 but that's it. Some of those women are spending $50, $100 or more on those guys at a time..... Link to comment
pl3asehelp Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 His JOB is to manipulate you into thinking he likes you and that you're special so that you'll pay him. If he was attracted to you , then what? Would you want to be in a relationship with someone who best case takes their clothes off in front of others and manipulates them for money, and worst case is a prostitute? Link to comment
annie24 Posted October 12, 2011 Share Posted October 12, 2011 I think........ if he were genuinely interested, he'd have asked you on a real date. I haven't seen that yet. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted October 12, 2011 Share Posted October 12, 2011 I'd be very surprised if a man had a woman's phone number for a few months and still hadn't asked her out if he was interested- why would he risk her being snapped up by some other guy? He's interested in the ego stroking and cash you give him. I'd move on to someone who is genuinely interested in dating you. Link to comment
dwadegirl Posted October 12, 2011 Author Share Posted October 12, 2011 Yeah, I needed to see it in black and white, but it's true that genuine interest results in taking things to the next level Link to comment
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