diamond78 Posted October 12, 2011 Share Posted October 12, 2011 Elle, It looks like there is still alot of love there. Doesn't mean he wants to get back together, but there is clearly still a love and respect for you as a woman. So, just take a bit of comfort in that as he clearly still cares about you. But who knows if this will open the door to communication between you two. Link to comment
ElleBelle Posted October 12, 2011 Author Share Posted October 12, 2011 Thank you Diamond for your honest responses and your time thinking about it for me. Ugh this is such a horrible loss, you know? I will never love another the way I love him. I am so heartbroken. But you are right, this really means nothing in terms of reconciliation. Sigh. Link to comment
EgoJoe Posted October 12, 2011 Share Posted October 12, 2011 He probably pre-ordered them a while back, and forgot. I'd send a text to say "thanks for the b-day present" and leave it at that. I have done this but with a Valentines day package. So this is likely. Follow this advice. Link to comment
ElleBelle Posted October 12, 2011 Author Share Posted October 12, 2011 I have done this but with a Valentines day package. So this is likely. Follow this advice. I could see this, but he texted the day before to confirm my new address. Anyway, I won't think any more about it. It just hurts too much. Link to comment
diamond78 Posted October 12, 2011 Share Posted October 12, 2011 Thank you Diamond for your honest responses and your time thinking about it for me. Ugh this is such a horrible loss, you know? I will never love another the way I love him. I am so heartbroken. But you are right, this really means nothing in terms of reconciliation. Sigh. Oh, I totally understand. I really feel for people who are broken up where both parties still have feelings for each other. But I do think it's very interesting that he took the time out to do all of this for your birthday and also confirming your new address. He definitely put some thought into it. I'm thinking now that maybe it would have been better to call with your thank you? I think a phone call may have helped with opening the door a bit just so you can get a better read on him. Although I think this still allows for you two to have communication in the future in you desire so... Link to comment
ElleBelle Posted October 12, 2011 Author Share Posted October 12, 2011 I am feeling more depressed now than anything. It is like he is punishing me -- he didn't respond to my email. I was actually starting to function -- this is after having to go on medication and to therapy, losing ten pounds, not sleeping or eating -- I was actually moving on and now this. Link to comment
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