ClarenceRutherford Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 it happened saturday night...he called on tuesday...several times...wanted to see me...or at least that's what he said... How did he act? Supportive? Your losing your virginity was a big thing in your life. Does he seem understanding? It's good he called. Many guys (unfortunately) don't. Am hoping he's not some player, though I doubt he was a virgin before you. Is he of similar age? I feel like a stupid, silly little girl asking advice about this...I'm sorry for bothering you No bother. If he seems like a good guy to date in other areas (leave out the sex now), could you not date him regularly? If you're feeling uncomfortable about getting too sexual too soon (which is what I think the heart of this may be about), then cool the sex and proceed like real couples do in dating -- focusing on the relationship over the sexual. Sex can wait. You want someone that truly cares for you. Link to comment
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