Is she worth my time?

[JonSnow88]

There is this girl at work that I told a coworker I thought was cute. Well he goes up to her and says that I like her but Im shy, and she say's she will "fix that". The next time I see her in the break room she's sitting down and sees me come in and says hey and smiles. She eventually comes over to where Im sitting and we talk. The conversation went ok, but the next time we talk a couple of days later its me, her and two other coworkers talking and the one guy says something I can't remember what and she ask him what is he going to do about it. I reply that he has a knife, and the guy says dude I wouldn't cut up a girl but you i would in a heartbeat, and the girl say's she would really like to see that. I was a bit taken aback by it and stopped talking to her after that. The next day another coworker of mine who is a girl said she stepped into a conversation with the girl and the guy who went up to her and said I liked her and she said that she said that to scare me off because she has a boyfriend. The guy says that she said that she thought she scared me off. A couple of weeks later the guy who made the knife joke says that he talked to her and told her that I was scared of her, and she said that I wont even look her in the eye long enough for her to apologize. To me if she really cared about it wouldn't she just apologize for what she said, or at least come up and say something? I know that this might be a misunderstanding, but did I overreact to it or does she not really care that much about it?

[italiannmf24]

Had she really wanted to apologize, she would've done it by now.

 

Just keep going on about your life and leave her alone.

[Tanzi]

misunderstanding or not it all seems a little immature and silly to me. A total waste of time to be honest.

[BrowneyedMan]

I agree with the above posters, buddy. I think your reaction was totally appropriate and self-respecting. A woman who says stuff like that about you in front of you isn't worth your time (or anyone's, if you ask me). Try to get along with her as a co-worker but don't pursue a woman like that, not even for friendship. She would be mostly trouble and you don't need that. my 2 cents.