Forget Myself Posted October 9, 2011 Share Posted October 9, 2011 I don't know when it started happening, but i have earned the reputation of being the guy among my friends who dates women whom aren't single. I don't know why this happens, but it never usually lasts very long, although it tends to be very passionate, and they usually end up leaving their s.o. for me. in some cases even their marriage, and getting divorced. I'm not sure why, but my best relationships have been with girls who are unavailable and we start dating under very unstable grounds. my most recent ex was married when we started dating, and she was the most significant heartbreak for me. she left her husband to be with me, and when it didn't work out a few months later i was devastated, and i don't know why, because i expected it not to work out anyway. I guess i just want to know if this is normal or if other people do similar things. I have many very beautiful female friends, but often I am not attracted to them until they are seeing someone else, and often I become a source of stress in their relationship, and a source of comfort for the woman at the same time. why do things happen this way? my girlfriend left me for one of her best friends too. and I guess i'm just trying to make sense of the whole psychology behind it, because i honestly can't see her being attracted to this guy. but maybe he has become the same thing to her as i have to my female best friends? it really bugs me. has anyone had a similar experience? Link to comment
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