symbiot Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 I found this site because of my breakup. I was searching the Internet looking for a way to get back together with my ex. I researched it relentlessly. I started NC. I started working on myself ( because I blamed myself for not being good enough for her). Man I went through it all. The begging/ crying,lost weight. I had tremors. Anxiety big time! Real thoughts of suicide. Almost lost friends. Gained weight. Kept reaching out. Thought she'd forget about me. Thought she'd never Roget about me. Bla bla bla..... My story is on here mostly under my post " what happened" . But it's also spread around here on various threads. You can pm me if you want more info, it's up to you. But the here's what I'm wondering: if you were/ are a victim of gigs or perhaps you are a perpetrator, after you have some time under you belt,do you still want them back? After all the work and realizations you've had would you take them back if they came back and apologized and promised you that they have changed. If they cried and begged? I'm 8 mos post BU and to be completely honest there is a small part of me that does want her back. Not much but the romantic part of me wants the movie scene: she comes back,tells me she has thought about me everyday all day long, she wants to do anything to prove herself and then she does and they lived happily ever after.I KNOW THIS IS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN,IT'S A FANTASY! This thread is for everyone's gigs story not just mine. Link to comment
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.