Boink Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 I've been seeing this guy for 4 months and we've been texting and talking everyday. Initially , we do have a mutual understanding saying we're after long term relationship. However, we stay quite far away each other and I always make an effort to see him every 2 weeks time. He even told me that I have a very big potential to be his boy friend. Everything were great until recently I asked him did he bring someone home/if he's dating someone else/ sleep with others while we are seeing other, initially he said he don't remember but later on he admitted it, I was surprise that he said he still having non string fun around for three times while we are seeing each other. I didn't know how to react on that, and then he started telling me about all his histories about non string fun. I didn't blame him for that because we are just seeing other and I don't have the right to control him. Then, I made fun around asking him what's my number then? He said I'm not a number and I'm just me. I was assured by his words that he seems serious about me yet at the same time I was thinking if he's really into me, why would he still have non string fun around? Later on, I convinced myself that I should be careful to avoid any heartbreak or disappointment. On the last date, he told me I'm fun, loveable, cute and everything were good except that he don't find me attractive anymore. From that moment onwards, I had a very bad feeling about it and I think no matter how careful I am, I fall for him already. He said he got a feeling that I'll never contact him anymore, and he also stresses that if I stop contacting him, I'll become a number. We haven't seen each other for almost 3 weeks already but we still keep in touch by texting and talking on phone. I want to keep in touch with him because I know I like him. However, I can feel that he's not into me already after the words he said to me and also the conversation we had. He said at the current moment we are just friend but he don't know what will happen if we continue to be friends and he might fall for me later on? which I can't really deal with it. So last week I decided not to contact him and back off and think of the whole situation again. He did message me once but I didn't reply him because I'm really scared of facing any disappointment again and it really bothers me a lot. Ever since then, he never message me anymore, and we stop talking for a week already. If he really likes me and treasure me, he would have make an effort to contact me again? Thank you for reading such a long post and excuse my bad English Should I stop contacting this person and move on? or should I just text him back again ? But what should I say I were to text him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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