lonelyheart2 Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 Ok I'm really really really angry right now my ex broke up with me 3 and a bit months ago there has been a small amount of contact from him and I bumped in to him last week (we go to the same university) but it was a short meeting now a week later he sends me this???????????????? 'hey... so was good to see you the other day, if a lil weird... thing is, and i know saying this will probs never want to make you see me again... aaaaand i know it's just my mates being * * * * ting lil bastards, but, you're not preggers are you... (feel free to slap ect next time you see my mates for making me ask this)' Before anyone asks I weight a little under 8 stone and am 5ft5! Link to comment
SethSLC Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 Errr ya... I'd just reply with "Could be, who knows these days" Link to comment
lonelyheart2 Posted October 6, 2011 Author Share Posted October 6, 2011 Why would he send this??!! Does he really want me to be so angry with him?? Link to comment
lonelyheart2 Posted October 6, 2011 Author Share Posted October 6, 2011 he just came online on skype do I say anything? Link to comment
DN Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 I think you owe him an honest answer. Link to comment
lonelyheart2 Posted October 6, 2011 Author Share Posted October 6, 2011 do I??? We haven't had been together and had sex in 4 months?! I randomly saw him last week why would he think that?! And be persuaded by his friends to ask!! Link to comment
lonelyheart2 Posted October 6, 2011 Author Share Posted October 6, 2011 it's kind of funny..... Link to comment
DylanNotorious Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 Why have you not blocked him from skype? And nooooooo his friends did not tell him to ask you if you were preggers, he made that up - can't you tell???? I bet his friends couldn't care less if you were pregnant or not. Does he think you've put on weight - hence the inquiry? Link to comment
DN Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 Not everyone shows pregnancy until very late (some conceal it until very late) , and some people only tell an ex about a pregnancy much later and some never at all. Link to comment
madine Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 Mwehe, I wouldn't say anything. Let him sweat. I actually suspect my ex from having been pregnant as well. Link to comment
lanaa Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 No i think he just wanted a reaction from you,,weird guy Link to comment
diamond78 Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 I would be completely insulted and let him know that I was.... Link to comment
lanaa Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 I would be completely insulted and let him know that I was.... He knows that very well,thats why its probably best to ignore or answer something in a sarcastic way Link to comment
DN Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 Why would you want to unnecessarily worry anyone even if they are an ex? A simple "No I am not" is all you need say. Link to comment
madine Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 Why would you want to unnecessarily worry anyone even if they are an ex? A simple "No I am not" is all you need say. Well, if there is no reason to reasonably think she is pregnant the whole question is rather stupid. I myself had some proper 'evidence' that my ex was pregnant (and got an abortion), but I never asked. Link to comment
DN Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 No one knows what is reasonable to other people. It's a no-brainer - just say 'No' and move on. Link to comment
lonelyheart2 Posted October 6, 2011 Author Share Posted October 6, 2011 I just spoke to him on skype...I know I probably shouldn't have done but I just wanted to clear that up....turns out he's mega stressed out about stuff right now...he wanted to meet up but I kind of didn't answer on that one and it wasn't mentioned again.....at least I don't feel like hitting him right now, back to normal again which means I must be better now as a month ago I would probably still be fuming and upset about this days later! Link to comment
EgoJoe Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 Goodjob. Now you have no reason to talk for awhile. Being direct is a very attractive and efficient trait that very few Women (I know) put effort into unitlizing! Link to comment
lonelyheart2 Posted October 7, 2011 Author Share Posted October 7, 2011 Thanks EgoJoe I'm sure that'll be the last of it Link to comment
EgoJoe Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 Haha you would think so but he'll have to come with something more significant or not at all. Also,in my hasty reply I typed unitlizing instead of initializing. Thats a weird typo to make. Link to comment
lonelyheart2 Posted October 7, 2011 Author Share Posted October 7, 2011 he just sent me this message = 'Just wanted to apologise for last night again, been watching the kings speech on dvd... such a good film, even if it did rather remind me of you... even had a cup of tea!!! should be most proud Anyway, just wanted to say sorry again.......work tomorrow so best head off, night sophia, so sorry.' As looney as it sounds this has now made me miss him, ridiculous how they can really piss you off one second and then remind you of the good times the next... Link to comment
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