Tfb43 Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 Ok, here it goes. I met my ex in Aug 08. It started as dating nothing serious. She was looking to move soon for a new job so attachments were not what she was looking for. Not long things changed we both fell in love. She moved accross 3 states for her new job. I waited 6 months to make sure we were going to work. I moved there. We had our ups and downs because we had never lived with anyone else. But, for the most part it was good. We had one fight while we were living together. She overreacted(her words) and kicked me out. When we met she said when she makes a decision it final. I didn't argue i just left. A few weeks later we worked it out and realized it was lack of communication. I kept my place just incase something else happened. But, it was good again. I stayed with her most of the time. Then her father died and there was a chance for her to be close to her family that was on the other side of the nation. I supported her 100% and told her she should try for that job. She asked how we would handle it. I told her to do it and I will work here until i find a job out there. She got the job in aug 10. and moved. It was really hard to let her go out there. We would be together now if i told her to stay or I moved with her. Fast forward to july 11 I get the breakup call. Nothing I could do because we were so far away. She said it was her not me, she wasn't happy. OK. I make a trip to see her in Aug. It was really stressful at first but it seemed that we still had feelings for each other. I asked if I could come back and visit more often. YES. Two weeks later she had some days off and an ex boyfriend flew out to see her. We know what happened. I couldn't say anything because we were broken up. SO , i went out too. Didn't make a difference to me I was still in love with her. So I asked to come visit, she was hesitant at first, but agreed. So I go out there and she has a guy that was a friend staying in a camper doing work at the forrest she was at. No problem she joked that he though he was going to get laid. She said but i was going to be there(joking). I found it awkward. We were sleeping in the same bed and we know what happened. I was not feeling right because she really wanted to be with the other guy. She said she wasn't going to and for me to stop worrying about it. Ok we go out and have dinner with her friend. I was not feeling well so I went back to her place. They show up and she standing in the door way and said I going to sleep in the trailer tonight. She walked out there, I followed and she began to flip out. Saying the meanest things I have ever heard. She didn't like me physically, mentally, or emotionally and wanted me out now! at 11:00 at night. So I left and have been sick over this. I felt this was a chance for us to reconnect. Why can't i get over this? Link to comment
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