chr8st8na Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 I ask him questions bout his 11 yr old daughter and he shows me pictures of her when he takes new pictures of her, so it's not like we are taking her out of the equation. Its just that I know there's no guidelines set for a single parent to introduce their kid to their Significant Other, so I just never asked out of respect. However my friends think its strange that I haven't asked or even alluded to him if I can meet her since we've been dating for five and half months. Some of them think that he might start to think I'm not serious about him; and some of them think that I am letting him get away with not introducing me to his daughter ?? They all agree that they don't understand why it doesn't bother me that he hasn't introduced me to his grown child. Am I missing something here?? Because every time I felt like I needed to have a talk with him (which has happened twice) about our relationship, he always assumed that it was about meeting his daughter or putting his daughter before me that I had issues with. However it was his smoking and his crankiness that was the talking points (haha) I know it's usually the Significant Other that wonders why their partner hasn't introduce them to their kids, but I just don't have that worry. My friends say I am being way too lax with him. They have me wondering if there will be consequences/repercussions to me waiting for him to introduce us on his terms. Feedbacks please? Oh yea, my friends tend to be very distrustful of men in general (haha) Link to comment
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