Forget Myself Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 3 weeks ago my ex called me to apologize for treating me bad, i said thanks for the apology and then we small talked a bit and then she got flustered and hung up. Last night I called and left a voicemail saying I was thinking about her and that it would be nice to catch up sometime and I hope she is doing well. I got a response at 1am saying "I'm sorry for everything I put you through. But I don't want to see you. I'd appreciate it if you didn't contact me. I'll have the 300 dollars I borrowed from you soon and I'll get your address from you then." To me it appears she is mad at me, I don't know why. It's almost like the role is reversed here and she is feeling like the dumpee and I the dumper. She was the one who wanted a break, to break up and was seeing other men. I initiated no contact the next day and we haven't been in contact since. We never even talked about what happened. We had plans to move in together into a new apartment one day and she was saying how much she cares for me. And now we are here. Can anyone give some insight? Perhaps she wanted me to show her how much I wanted her and instead I pushed her away? Should I tell her I miss her and that the door is open for me? I do want to get back with her someday, I don't think it will be now by the looks of it, but I really am feeling like this was my fault now, and I don't even know why I feel that way. I was so certain her taking a break meant there was someone else in the picture. Could she really just have needed space? I was doing so well about healing myself, and now I am confused. It appears she is not on the same page about what happened, is it possible she could feel like the one who was dumped? If so, why would she feel that way? And should I reach out? A girl at my work was saying sometimes girls will say the opposite, when they really just want you to chase them and show you care. Could this be the case about our break up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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