sea change Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 I went to lecture with my best friend she introduced me to her male friend.. he seems okay. But he doesn't respect my boundaries or anyone for that matter. I dont get it. Is it my fault? I am already uncomfortable with people touching me especially guys.. i prefer not to be touched and we get along okay. But if they start touching me even in a light way I can't handle it. Her friend touches me a lot.. I dont like it. I never said anything at first because I thought it was just a coincidence, that maybe we were walking too close together. But then he lifted me up.. I didnt like it at all. My feet hurt and he thought it was okay to pick me up and touch me. I screamed and told him to back off. He might thought i was weird because he told me to chill.. After that I just got uncomfortable and didnt want to be around him. A lot of guys in my life even people I come into contact with through school or business have this problem. Touching me. Without my permission... Am I doing something wrong here? Shoudl I feel bad about not wanting to be touched without permission? Link to comment
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