dumpedinshock Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 Ok, so I posted earlier about this girl whom I met online, her profile said she is only looking for friends, she just got out of a relationship and wants friends for now...she told me that, I agreed to start this way... We hung out together multiple times, things got kinda intense once (she grabbed my hand and was holding it and got alittle touchy), we then started talking that this is not what just friends would do, I told her there is definitely "SOMETHING" in here...we kissed that night, a couple of times, and she told me to listen to a certain song about taking things slow so we dont mess things up... So everything sounds like it's going in the right direction, I do like her alot, she seems to like me, she even took me with her to hangout with her friends, we had fun...we almost always kiss everytime we meet... The problem: she never initiates contact, nor text, sometimes she won't even reply to my texts...i ask her out and she will only go out if she has nothing else to do, is this a part of taking it slow? or is it just not interested? What I really need advice with: Should I let her miss me? Just stop texting and contacting her for a few days? fwiw, i asked her out on the weekend on a nice dinner, she said she is not sure if she had plans with her other friends and that she'd prefer to do it on a weekday night...How should I deal with her not initiating contact at all? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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