Tobiano Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 This may sound kind of odd, but I have been giving my girlfriend oral for a few weeks now and she decided that she wants to try giving me a blowjob. I am open to the idea since she really seems to want to do it but I have one confusion. What the heck am I supposed to do? Do I just lay there? Or am I supposed to do something? I don't know any input from guys or girls helps, haha. Link to comment
Shudder Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 sit back and relax or cum in her face. up to you Link to comment
Mustachio Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 Yea... as shudder said. Lay back, enjoy yourself. What does she do when you are going down on her? Link to comment
Tobiano Posted October 5, 2011 Author Share Posted October 5, 2011 Hmmm okay maybe I am just over thinking it. . . Well she moans and moves some and then tenses up and almoste falls asleep. She is the louder one out of the two of us though, because I tend to be pretty quiet. I don't know I guess I should just wing it? Link to comment
Fudgie Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 My boyfriend loves BJs, I love back scratches. My boyfriend scratches my back while I give a BJ. Link to comment
Tobiano Posted October 5, 2011 Author Share Posted October 5, 2011 My boyfriend loves BJs, I love back scratches. My boyfriend scratches my back while I give a BJ. Oh! That is a good idea, well for her it would be more messing with her hair but same general idea. Thanks I just didn't want to lay there feeling useless if that makes sense. Link to comment
Mustachio Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 My boyfriend loves BJs, I love back scratches. My boyfriend scratches my back while I give a BJ. Hah. I love both those things... now I just gotta figure out a way to have my girlfriend scratch my back WHILE going down on me.... Also Tobiano, you are overthinking it. Things will naturally come to you as its happening, just enjoy it. Maybe run your hands through her hair if you are so inclined. But seriously, stop worrying about it, and enjoy it, cause they are awesome. Link to comment
Fudgie Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 First time I gave my bf a BJ I was like "Hey, I kinda want a backscratch!" So he just did it with one hand as I went down on him. I LOVE it. Really gets me in the "zone" and feeling relaxed and happy. Link to comment
trish1988 Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 I think it would be better to hold her hair.(if she got long hair)..thats what my boyfriend usually does...just to make my hair out of the way...you can caress her nipples as well..and as what they say...JUST FEEL EVERY MOVES her tongue and ENJOY IT!!!! Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 depending on how am lying or sitting down while i give him a bj my bf touches me where he can reach at the moment, so that can be anywhere, he also loves to hold one hand and so unless i need them both, he can! just relax and enjoy, it will come natural, you can't plan out everything in advance Link to comment
annony Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 I actually hate it when my bf goes for my nipples while I'm giving him a bj. I really don't want any "pleasure" while giving a bj, I find it's a sensory overload. My bf usually moans, grabs at the sheets, runs his hand through my hair, and generally acts like he's having a good time. Link to comment
Realitynut Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 Yes, when I DID have a bf, he held my long hair out of the way. He also said nice things to me. Like comments how my hair looked. or commented how it felt..bj and hair...or sometimes he'd tell me how good it looked with my fingers or nails if they were polished, looked on his dk. actually, he got me feeling like I was a pro at it, and so I did if often....boy I miss sex with him, makes me tear up alittle....anyway, on to you! compliment her, tell her what you like. Also, try a Halls cough drop in her mouth, apparently it gets things quite tingly down there. We always started our lovemaking with him getting a bj. He was pretty lucky actually, if I do say so myself!!! hehehe...but tell her how you like her hand on it. Tell her to grasp the base of it really tight..it acts like a * * * * ring, and engorges the blood to the penis head, and makes it really hard. Also circling the tongue around the top of the head....so many ways! lol I take it you guys are new to this. You could also watch porn to learn. But compliment her. Tell her what feels good. Give her pointers. What I was going to say earlier, but I got side tracked thinking about ahhhhh....this subject....you don't have to come in her mouth or even come. We always did this first (this is where I got side tracked) and then quit so we could actually have sex. He got a little action, and then I got a whole lot of action. I don't enjoy getting oral....I just want to get banged...lol...hmmm...this week is 6 months since I last saw him...I guess I'm missing him a little. So have her squeeze the base with her hand...hard. Tell her she's beautiful, and she's the best. Run your fingers through her hair, or even pull it a little...if you can think at that stage. Get a powerful cough drop, or experiment with ice... Different positions are easier, doesnt hurt the neck so much. Use the mouth and the hand in an up and down motions esp. if it's nice a lubed with spit circle the tongue around the pole...tell her to think of it as a lolipop!!! lol Relax and enjoy. I'm jealous. Link to comment
Tobiano Posted October 5, 2011 Author Share Posted October 5, 2011 I think it would be better to hold her hair. Okay that would work quite well I think. depending on how am lying or sitting down while i give him a bj my bf touches me where he can reach at the moment, so that can be anywhere, he also loves to hold one hand and so unless i need them both, he can! just relax and enjoy, it will come natural, you can't plan out everything in advance I also really like this one, nice simple and I can't screw it up! haha I actually hate it when my bf goes for my nipples while I'm giving him a bj. I really don't want any "pleasure" while giving a bj, I find it's a sensory overload. I will be sure to keep this in mind, thanks. So have her squeeze the base with her hand...hard. Tell her she's beautiful, and she's the best. Run your fingers through her hair, or even pull it a little...if you can think at that stage. Get a powerful cough drop, or experiment with ice... Different positions are easier, doesnt hurt the neck so much. Use the mouth and the hand in an up and down motions esp. if it's nice a lubed with spit circle the tongue around the pole...tell her to think of it as a lolipop!!! lol I think I can do that, thank you! My favorite was 69... Haha if only I were that acrobatic. . . Well thank you all for your input you have helped me quite a bit. I will keep these in mind and then if the time arises I may use some of them .I will probably definetly hold off on the finising in her mouth because I feel like that would be quite unpleasent O.o .I probably overthought but I always worry about stuff like this because I want to make sure she is comfortable and having fun also. Thanks again to all who posted Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 Realitynut hit it on the head! No pun intended. BTW I think I am in love There is one thing you do need to talk about. Will you cum in her mouth? will she swallow? and you need to warn her when you are about to cum! Have fun, telll her what you like and don't expect it to be like jacking off because it isn't. Lost Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 well for 69 you don't have to be acrobatic, you just lie there and her on top of you but reversed, so it is not difficult, i love that one too, but find it hard to focus on what i am doing when he is pleasuring me that way and when i get intense pleasure i sometimes bite or clench my jaws or something so bad idea! LOL but i do love it and he is still intact... Link to comment
Lonewing Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 well for 69 you don't have to be acrobatic, you just lie there and her on top of you but reversed, so it is not difficult, i love that one too, but find it hard to focus on what i am doing when he is pleasuring me that way and when i get intense pleasure i sometimes bite or clench my jaws or something so bad idea! LOL but i do love it and he is still intact... Well, that all comes down to pacing and knowing yourself and herself...When the mouth is no longer trustworthy, there's still the hands!! Link to comment
MakeItCount Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 I was talking to a friend of mine a long time ago. She was giving her bf a bj and he moaned..which is fine. But he was like..really loud. She said it was weird, and she also thought the entire time "FFS, I'm not THAT good". Haha. Just enjoy it and go with it brah. Try 69 when you feel you're experienced enough. Definitely my favorite. Link to comment
Tobiano Posted October 6, 2011 Author Share Posted October 6, 2011 Hmm I think I will warn her a good few seconds before so that she can either stay or move depending on what she is comfortable with. Link to comment
Fudgie Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 That's a good idea. Definitely give a warning before you cum. I like to swallow but I need a warning. Link to comment
Tobiano Posted October 6, 2011 Author Share Posted October 6, 2011 Yeah I figured it would be pretty rude to not give some sort of warning, haha. Link to comment
Realitynut Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 But HEY, maybe she wants some SEX!!! Unless you are young enought to do it twice in one night. Why can't she just 'do it', and when you get close, say....ok. ok. hold up a second....whew, ....how about bending over.....lol....hehe...I'm getting my jollys writing this stuff. I guess I'm finally outta my depression!!! lol Link to comment
symbiot Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 So when are you cumming to Colorado? Link to comment
Tobiano Posted October 6, 2011 Author Share Posted October 6, 2011 Haha well we are waiting until we are both 18 for sex, not really for legal reasons, just figured it was a good time : ) Link to comment
Realitynut Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 So when are you cumming to Colorado? HaHaHa, when are you coming to Illinois??? (eh, ya, I mean...cumming...) Link to comment
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