hangingout Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 Hello. Recently, my boyfriend and I decided to go on a (faithful) break as things weren't going so well. During this time, I stayed with my brother and we were training for a long distance charity bike ride. My brother and I were training and some of his friends too so we trained together a couple of times. Once we finished the race, the next day I wanted to go out for one last blast on my bike as I had been given this really cool bike and had to take it back to the person who lent it to me but my brother's friend offered to come out with me as he too had a new bike so I was like - OK, Cool. Let's go out for a bike ride together. I have known this guy for something like 10 years as he's one of my brother's best friends. Anyway, we went out for a bike ride then I went home and he went home. A few days later I met up with my boyfriend for dinner to talk about us. During the dinner I told him what I had been up to and that I went on this bike ride. My boyfriend got really mad at me. He said I had done it to make him jealous as my brother's friend has got a reputation for being really into sex with his girlfriends (this is true - the guy talks about sex alot but he never did anything disrespectful or sexual towards me and I've always felt comfortable). I didn't do it to make my boyfriend jealous - I just wanted to go for a bike ride and didn't think it was a big deal at the time. Anyway, my boyfriend said it was the angriest he'd ever been with me (!) and that night he wanted to tell me he wanted to get back with me but now he doesn't because he feels he can't trust me because he's worried I'd break his heart and i have 'power' over him. How can I get him to see that it WAS an innocent thing, I think he's being unreasonable towards me as I don't think I did anything wrong. I told my brother too and he thinks my boyfriend is being crazy jealous but my boyfriend thinks I'm that bad person. Help! What should i do? Link to comment
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