Michelle82 Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 I am in a long distance relationship, about 2000 miles apart. We have known each other for years and have tried to be together many times but this time I think we are finally getting it right. I am here visiting him now. Two nights ago we had a long talk about us, a very good talk, one that was almost too good to be true. He told me that he loved the fact that I was so secure, and that we could trust each other. That same night I noticed him txting on his phone and could tell it was a female, but nothing inappropriate. The very next day, just yesterday he got in the shower and left his phone on the bed and I let it get the best of me and I looked. I saw part of a convo to a girl that said 'have a great day beautiful'. It ate me up to pieces. He went to work and I stayed here, I prayed about it, wondering if I should say anything. He got home last night and I started to ask him. He said 'I have a lot of female friends, I say nice things to them sometimes. It doesn't mean anything is going on, I love you and only you, we just talked about this last night!' he was upset that i went through his phone, but he said that more than anything he was upset that was just like everyone else. That he had put me up on this pedestal as being different from his past relationships and that this shows him I'm not that different. I am heart broken. I am so MAD at myself. I feel like ruined this amazing relationship that we had. He hasn't hardly looked at me since last night muchless touched me. I leave in two days to go back home, but I feel like he doesn't want me here at all. What do I do? How do I fix this? Link to comment
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