w3536 Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 Backstory: went out for 3 yrs, she left me over a stupid fight. came back 6 months later left me again 3 months ago stating that she didnt love me anymore and didnt want me to ever look for her again. So i did just that. i didnt message her i went on complete NC. Two weeks ago i got a friend request from her on fb but i didnt let it phase me. i kept my cool and i didnt accept or ignore. Today i go to my fb acct and there is a message from her. "how ironic i barely read this message. When i read it i thought about all those times we were together nothing but beautiful moments." I really dont know which message she is talking about since i sent her quite a few a few months ago when she was breaking up with me AGAIN. CONCLUSION: What i really want to do is answer "yeah moments that you threw away when you left me twice!" BUT i wont do that. i'll keep my kool. i'll keep calm and collected because the past is the past and there is no reason for me to get bent out of shape over someone that hurt me so much. I know she is expecting a reply or for me to awcknoledge the message but i dont see the point in messaging someone who a couple months ago told me to leave her the hell alone. Whatever reasons she had to send that message i really do admire her BALLS but its tooooooo late now. Ive been hurt really bad by her and dont want to go through that again so i'm going to ignore it. its in MMMMYYYY best interest and if shes suffering or now realizes what she lost, well, its not MY problem anymore. I finally understand that she has to own up to her actions and i cant be the one thats always there to pick her up so she can slap me down. I dont know about you but i sound as if im healing! Link to comment
msblueeyzz Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 Great job! You definitely sound like you are healing. You are also being very strong and assertive in what you want and need. I have to say I wish I were this strong, but am happy for you that you are Link to comment
w3536 Posted October 4, 2011 Author Share Posted October 4, 2011 You will get there!!! its all a matter of time and staying strong. occupying yourself with other things and making yourself feel and be better. Link to comment
camus154 Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 Yep, congrats. Now whatever you do, don't reply! Link to comment
WindowTo Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 I will pay you 50$ to just write back STFU. Just kidding......... sort of. Link to comment
Hnybun Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 If I were you, I'd block her on FB. That would get the point accross that you're done and would prevent you from being tempted. Just a thought... Link to comment
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