I think I am almost over her!!!

[Klokwurk]

So it's been about 3 months since break up, 5 weeks no contact. She was a total B, all my friends and family found her intolerable, but had these awesome qualities too. Anyway, I love her, but I am feeling really good tonight, and needed some advice.

 

She sent me this a week and a half ago:

 

Hi,

 

We really need to talk, but I tried a few times to call your cell phone and got no answer. Please give me a call or let me know when I can call you. In case you don't have my number anymore it is xxxxxxxxxx. I think that to call from the US you need to dial xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

I hope you're doing well and please call me soon.

 

B

 

So! I responded a few days ago with:

 

Hey sup,

 

What did you need to talk to me about?

 

Actually everything seems pretty clear after everything I have been reading here. NO MORE CONTACT. But I also want someone to tell me this, because there IS lingering hope that she wants to talk about us. Someone tell me quickly and decisively that this message is clearly another attempt to string me along and * * * * with me. That I shouldn't care.

 

It sucks cause even that single one line of feigned coldness carried in it every single wish in my heart at the time...

 

I know this doesn't deserve it's own thread, but I feel like I am nearing the end of hell, and need a quick push out of the gates, a hop skip and a jump through purgatory, then we all know what comes next!

[LDRohnos]

Someone tell me quickly and decisively that this message is clearly another attempt to string me along and * * * * with me. That I shouldn't care.

 

This message is clearly another attempt to string you along and **** with you. You shouldn't care.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Joking. Yes it probably is. Unless her response is something along the lines of "I've made a huge mistake - I'm so sorry - I want to be with you - we can work it out." There's no point of continuing a conversation. Doing great!

[Mr Man]

Well, in truth, no one knows why she is trying to reach you. But, if reaching you was REALLY that important, she would have put a lot more effort in than just calling you a few times and leaving you a brief message. Push on mate and NEVER break no contact!

[Klokwurk]

Thanks guys. I truly appreciate it.