acidreflux54 Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 I was chatting online, and this guy was asking me questions like he was interested. I answered his questions, but when i asked him he didn't answer. What can cause them to do that? Also, I was chatting with another person and they asked me questions like they were interested as well, but then they stopped asking me questions. I asked the person, "is there a reason you don't want to talk anymore? I'm just curious." They didn't respond. What factors cause people to act this way? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueidealist24 Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 That's happened to me before.. were they asking you questions about sex? I think a guy I was talking to online 'ditched' me because he didn't like my answers about sex (I'm a virgin and was a bit uncomfortable talking about this). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superfox Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 Be so careful talking online. Never give out your name, school, area or anything that could track you down however "cute" their picture may be. Not everyone is who you think they are. Big red flags if they are not forthcoming about themselves. Please be careful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MyNinja Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 If you are doing all the answering and they aren't giving back, I'd just stop talking to them altogether. That's a big red flag if they aren't willing to give information about themselves that they ask you. What kinds of questions are they asking you that you respond to? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acidreflux54 Posted October 4, 2011 Author Share Posted October 4, 2011 He told me that i had good control over my hormones. Since, i have not been with a guy. Then i said, "if i am with a guy i would want to be friends with them for a long time, i would not be involved in premarital intimacy anytime soon. It might take 8 years for me to be ready for example." Then he said, "ok" Then i asked, "if you were in a relationship with a person that was like that would that bother you? im just curious." He said,"i'll respect her opinion though but then..we all have needs" Then another person asked about my height, and i gave them an answer but they didn't respond when I said "what about you?" We were talking a while before this but then they decided to not answer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imsuperman Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 Meet real-life folks instead. Chatting online can be dangerous, especially for young people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueidealist24 Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 Well, I think he was probably looking for easy sex and didn't think you would give it to him. Mine seemed to lose interest after finding out I'm a virgin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laura40 Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 Hi, Online chatting can be weird. Suddenly they're there really interested then they're gone!! Don't take it personally, seriously, as I've had this happen to me - and I know lots of people who have had it done to them too! I also agree with superfox, be careful, lots of weirdos out there on the net!! Be careful with what information you tell them.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acidreflux54 Posted October 6, 2011 Author Share Posted October 6, 2011 Okay, thank you all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thorshammer Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 Because they are talking to someone else and diverted attention. It happens to me too. I have met many girls off the internet, i met my last ex of 3 years off myspace. Usually, you end an online message with a question, "Yeah I live in brooklyn, what part of nyc are you from?" etc. If they dont hit back, then so what! You are supposed to be starting online conversations with many men. Online is usually a bad experience for many women as creepy men flock online. Also, its easier for men to cheat or lie this way, so be careful! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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