NICEMAN99 Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 here is the story! dont know if its in the right section. i was married to my wife for over 14 years we have 2 beautiful daughters ,we met when she was 19 and i was 23 i worked 2 jobs so she can go to school and she has done very good. a year ago she got a job offer and got me scared but told her to take it anyways over the 14 years i took alot of weight about 40 pounds i would say...and still have the same job when i met her. our life has been good besides the fact that we almost never took time for ourselfs(she asked manytimes )im more of a family kind of men , and love my family so vacations(there were many)but they were always with our kids. last june she cheated with a coworker and i found out...she begged not to split up she didnt want to lose me etc...but she wasnt being honest. cause a week later she asked for time appart so she can think things out. immediately after i left she called this other guy and they starting to see each other on a regular basis. long story short!!!! 2 months after separation (divorce papers were filled 3 weeks after separation)she start telling me things like -im not sure im doing the right thing(with the divorce) -many times i wanted to get back but dont know how.. -i cant live without you,but going back with you will be a failure on my acts. last weekend was her birthday and i told her that i love her but i will stop calling her ,texting her and will stop answering her call and texts. told her that i still love her but im fedup of thisand i asked this question. DO YOU STILL LOVE ME ? DO YOU MISS ME? her answer was!!!! I DONT KNOW I KNOW I GOT SO USED TO BE WITH YOU THAT I DONT KNOW HOW TO LIVE WITHOUT YOU. BUT IS IT LOVE DONT KNOW. WE were a regular couple almost never fight and happy in a way. she even say that now her words!!! LIFE WITH YOU WAS NEVER HELL YOU WERE THERE FOR ME ALL THE TIME..SURE THERE WERE THINGS THAT I DIDNT LIKE BUT YOU ARE A VERY GOOD GUY.. 3 weeks before she cheated on me we went shoping for an inground swimming pool and half way the works we split up. how can you shop for a 30 k swimming pool if things are not working out as a couple????? anyways all i want to know is WOMEN TELLING ME IS IT POSSIBLE TO STOP LOVING SOMEONE IN THAT SHORT PERIOD OF TIME? Link to comment
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