perse Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 It’s been 9 months since we broke up and it was a one-year relationship (almost exactly). Today was her birthday so I decided to message her. I went through the options before doing so. Text? Too personal. Call? Not sure if I’m ready to hear her voice again. E-mail? Seems a bit too formal. FB? Perfect. I did it this morning because I didn’t want to do the night thing. I don’t want her thinking I’m thinking of her at night. I know she’s not a big FB user (that’s why I kept her added) so I’m not expecting a prompt reply--but expecting one--and the anxiety is killing me. I didn’t think this would affect me. We had a fairly mature breakup since it was almost mutual but as soon as I hit send, my heart dropped to my stomach and I’ve been checking compulsively on my FB app to see if she’s messaged back. My birthday is in a month so it’s also got me wondering if she’ll remember too. I’m freaking out. What if she doesn't reply? What if she just doesn't want me saying happy birthday to her? What if she thinks I'm trying to get her back? Did I do the right thing in messaging her? Is it normal to act this way? Does this mean I'm not over her? Link to comment
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