natalie1 Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 have been with boyfriend for 10 years and he left ...found out he was seeing somebody for a long time and i am so hurt,angry and think life just isnt worth living..i miss him and still love him so much i dont know what to do with myself ..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chitown9 Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 Don't harbor any hope of him coming back. Go NC and move on.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Carus Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 Hi Natalie* The first thing you can do is hang out on this forum for a bit and read what others are doing to get through...You are certainly not alone* When you feel you relate to someones story or you are strong enough, drop a post to give some support.... Please also know that even if it takes 2 people to play a part in a breakup, if somebody cheats, that is 100% their issues and makeup that can make them do something like that and has nothing to do with you* Stay Strong. Take care of the things that need taking care of...most importantly YOU* Regards Carus* 8-) EDIT: Hi Chi* x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
natalie1 Posted October 3, 2011 Author Share Posted October 3, 2011 it has been nine weeks since he lft me but kept constant contact with me so i thought he would be coming back..only to find out he has been with another woman for a long time.....i feel numb,hurt and really stupid..keep blaming myself for everything!!!!!!!!!!1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
natalie1 Posted October 3, 2011 Author Share Posted October 3, 2011 he kept in constant contact with me since he left so i thought he would be coming back to me...but now found out he has been with someone even before he left me.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carus Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 Yes Natalie* ~ The same thing happened to me...and many others here....It is truly horrible* And mine never did come back....she stayed with my replacement... So for your own health for now, since you are so fresh into it, adopt and maintain No Contact, and eat and sleep as best you can....If you have a job, income or studies, try to keep that going .... Things will start to ease after some time.... Stay Strong Carus* 8-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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