KrisAL Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 I've been contemplating divorce for about 4 months now. Let me just say if I didn't have 2 young kids to think of I would be divorced. However, I do have kids to think about so if there is a way to fix this I will try it. I've told my husband that if things didn't change we will be getting a divorce, in those EXACT words. I've also suggested a separation but nothing from him. He will ask me what we can do to fix this and I said counseling is something we need and he said too expensive and maybe my problem is I am bored and I'm trying to blame that on something and our marriage is my target. He is completely in denial or something? I don't know what else to say to make him realize that I am serious other than following through with it and unfortunately I can't feasibly do that yet and even so I'm not using divorce as a scare tactic b/c if/when I leave it's for good. Anyways my question is am I saying the right things to get him to know how I am feeling and he is just not wanting to hear it or do I need to be doing something else? Link to comment
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