LexMan Posted October 2, 2011 Share Posted October 2, 2011 okay i am going to do this the best i can i know i am going to get a lot of let her go but it is not that easy to explane so i will do my best my gf of 2.9 years just randomly told me it was over she told me she lost the love she had fore me there was no more pashon and she broke up with me she told me she just wants to be single and enjoy life and see what she can do on her own pick up guys at bars ext.... she also told me that the felling she has for me or i gess " had" she dose not want fore any one els but me this is a small bit of a msg she sent me ( she is 21 has not bean single sense highschool) But honestly, I put so much energy into carrying on my own life as a working student that I hardly have any left to work on a long-term relationship. Especially not a loving, MUTUAL-caring relationship that you deserve. You are a great, caring person and you deserve to have someone who will treat you right. Not throw you to the side when they get stressed or hurt by other things, but someone who will work with you and appreciate your true beautiful qualities you have to offer. And I feel like I'm definitely not that person, at least not at this time. I understand you say you are willing to stay friends with me, and I personally do like that idea. But as Alleigh and a couple other of your friends have pointed out to me, I'm giving you the impression that this will be a quick "phase" in my life and I'll run straight back to you. Which, I'm sorry to say, I don't think will happen. It may, it may not, whatever happens, happens. But it sucks that you are willing to put forth the effort to watch me be with other men i know this is a lot to read and i hope some one will take the time to read all of it and help me my ? is this should i try to stay a friend it is going to hurt but it is what he wants and to be honest i want it to she truly is the love of my life i want to grow old and have kids ext.... with her and only her but i know all girls go threw this fase but should i stay around and wate for her i know she steal has fealings she is just hideing them right now so it will not affect her wanting to be "single" Link to comment
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