Morgan13 Posted October 2, 2011 Share Posted October 2, 2011 I have always gotten on with a guy at work, we have always exchanged small talk etc during work conversations however a few months ago our conversations/emails started to become more friendly, then intimate and long! He pursued with vigour, saying he had fallen in love with me, thought we were a good match, even started talking about marriage. He was pushing for us to meet outside of work but I said no as he had a girlfriend. He had always said their relationship was poor and appeared to be over but he was stalling to leave as he did not want to hurt her. Even when they went to stay with his parents for a week he texted me about 7 times a day still saying how much he loved me, missed me and about the ideas he had of how our life would be together. He indicated he would finish things with her when they got back from holiday however she then had a pregnancy scare. After a few weeks of is she or not? and him saying if she was he would feel obliged to stay and try and become a family I decided it felt like he was messing me about and I told him I was out of the equation. It has since turned out she is not pregnant but he has decided he wants things to work with her (although he does not sound happy when I speak to him) he always makes a point of saying things are good at home. Initally he kept saying he hoped we would stay friends but I was angry and upset and told him this and we did not speak for a few weeks. He has apologised for hurting me and I have told him today if we are going to be friends we need to start talking regularly again and spending time together as friends and he has since backtracked and now says lets see what happens. I still love him, he did completely sweep me off my feet with all the wonderful things he said and would still love for him to leave his girlfriend and tell me he loves me and still wants to be with me. Is there any future??? What should I do and say to him? Link to comment
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