I have doubts if i should keep our relationship going or not.....HELP

[nabeerockz]

Here's the thing... I courted this girl, I really like her and i think im in love. She answered yes...But after 2 weeks of being together, I feel lyk she doesnt lyk me anymore... Its lyk she lost interest in me sumhow.. I dont know y... Bcuz i didnt do anything wrong... Im starting to think that she has lost interest in me and i think the tym

will come that shell say that were done.... How do i get her interest back??.... And im her 1st boyfriend.... the first weeks were actually going really good we were really intimate with each other... Now wen i txt her

I love you,she wont even reply.... HELP??!! WAT SHOULD I DOOO...

[Snowy]

Wow she lost interest only 2 weeks in?

 

Bad news mate.

 

I'm guessing she's just not that into you, sorry. Better leave now.

[hangingout]

Maybe she didn't like you because your grammar is difficult to read

[hangingout]

I couldn't resist. Sorry about that.

 

Seriously, it sounds like she just isn't that in to you. If I liked a guy and he text me he loved me - I'd be so keen to let him know how I felt and get back in touch with him quick. If I didn't like him - I'd ignore his messages.

 

These things happen in life. 2 weeks is nothing, man! Leave her to it. Plenty more girls you can chase.

[nabeerockz]

Well so far its actually just a guess, because wen i ask her if our relationship is okay her answer was YES??? Thats y im

confused.. She kind of a shy type and sumtymes its kinda hard to read how she feels?? Is this how girls act wen they have

first?? So confusing....

[66307]

Well so far its actually just a guess, because wen i ask her if our relationship is okay her answer was YES??? Thats y im

confused.. She kind of a shy type and sumtymes its kinda hard to read how she feels?? Is this how girls act wen they have

first?? So confusing....

 

2 weeks is really nothing. Just leave her alone and wait for her to contact you if you still want to spend time with her. You can't keep chasing her and begging and pleading..

[donpeel83]

Here's the thing... I courted this girl, I really like her and i think im in love. She answered yes...But after 2 weeks of being together, I feel lyk she doesnt lyk me anymore... Its lyk she lost interest in me sumhow.. I dont know y... Bcuz i didnt do anything wrong... Im starting to think that she has lost interest in me and i think the tym

will come that shell say that were done.... How do i get her interest back??.... And im her 1st boyfriend.... the first weeks were actually going really good we were really intimate with each other... Now wen i txt her

I love you,she wont even reply.... HELP??!! WAT SHOULD I DOOO...

 

For starters as hangingout said, please please please use correct grammar i.e. Because not bcuz...like not lyk. Text speak goes right through me.

 

On to the important part of your message, once I was able to round up a youthful delinquent to decipher your original message.....it dosent have to be a case of doing something wrong. Often it boils down to the other party simply not having the same desire to be with you that you have. It does suck, and I have been there before when im convinced to the point id bet my house on the girl liking me only for her to change her tune and move else where, which leads me to start going "Whats happened?? Why has she changed her mind??"

 

Simple solution is this. Let it be. Sometimes trying to work out the reasons for X, Y and Z will drive you potty and destroy your morale. Simply try to accept it that she wasnt that in to you and that there really is plenty more fish in the sea.

 

 

And as 66307 stated, it was a short "relationship" and if you do want to try and win back her interest then dont go down the road of pleading and begging (im guilty of doing that and it dont work!!!) Just give her space and who knows what will happen. If you get clingy though then she probably will want nothing to do with you and at the point see previous point about more fish in the sea.

[Mesemene]

It was a very short time - and honestly, an even shorter one to be proclaiming your love. I don't know how old you and she are, but she may have been more thrilled with the thought of having a first boyfriend than actually having a relationship with you.