lord voldemort Posted October 1, 2011 Share Posted October 1, 2011 i had a break up about 9 months ago.My gf suddenly told 1 day that she wants a break up. i tried to convince her and made lot of efforts.We had relationship for 4 years and i did lot of things for these relationship.She recently got engaged with her brother only.Her brother had played a important role in our break up and not letting her to reconcile with me.I have stopped all sort of conversations with my ex. But since last few days my ex is trying to know about me.She requested 1 day to just inform her that whether i am fine or not... Why is she doing such? is it because she is feeling the guilt??..what i should do..i just hate her now... Link to comment
RitaTrue Posted October 1, 2011 Share Posted October 1, 2011 . But since last few days my ex is trying to know about me.She requested 1 day to just inform her that whether i am fine or not... Why is she doing such? is it because she is feeling the guilt??..what i should do..i just hate her now... WTH? She's got a problem.... I doubt it was guilt. If she was feeling guilt, SINCERE guilt, then she'd be expressing more about all the reasons SHE messed up, and how SHE'S sorry, and how SHE wants to reconcile hurt feelings, in general. But she's not focusing her attention on herself. She's focusing it on YOU. Imo, She's doing this because she wants to know how much you're over her, because she's not over you yet. Plus, she might have some really BAD insecurity issues. Which, evidently, she has no shame in showing. ("Give me 1 day to tell me how fine you are with this break up?" Are you serious?! Please.) NC from this girl. She'll suck you dry. Link to comment
lord voldemort Posted October 1, 2011 Author Share Posted October 1, 2011 WTH? She's got a problem.... I doubt it was guilt. If she was feeling guilt, SINCERE guilt, then she'd be expressing more about all the reasons SHE messed up, and how SHE'S sorry, and how SHE wants to reconcile hurt feelings, in general. But she's not focusing her attention on herself. She's focusing it on YOU. Imo, She's doing this because she wants to know how much you're over her, because she's not over you yet. Plus, she might have some really BAD insecurity issues. Which, evidently, she has no shame in showing. ("Give me 1 day to tell me how fine you are with this break up?" Are you serious?! Please.) NC from this girl. She'll suck you dry. well she told me months ago only that she is really happy and enjoying her life.. the day i came to know that she is engaged with her cousin (which is very very unusual in our culture) , i stopped all sorts of contact with her..she messaged me twice or thrice and also tried to talk with me online.. but i am not interested in talking with her.. i don't think she has any insecurity reasons because she is quite happy with her brother...i hate her really.. i am trying hard to control the volcano inside me for her.. she still wants to be friends with me!!.... what i should do?... should send her mail...!!..she spoiled my life badly... Link to comment
Mesemene Posted October 1, 2011 Share Posted October 1, 2011 Blunt is best. "Sorry, but the feelings I have for you aren't what one should feel for a friend. Please leave me alone to get on with my life, as you've gone on with yours. I have no interest in pretending to be your "friend" to make you feel better about this. Good luck, and goodbye." Link to comment
lord voldemort Posted October 2, 2011 Author Share Posted October 2, 2011 Blunt is best. "Sorry, but the feelings I have for you aren't what one should feel for a friend. Please leave me alone to get on with my life, as you've gone on with yours. I have no interest in pretending to be your "friend" to make you feel better about this. Good luck, and goodbye." ok.I think i should reply her in this manner only.I should be blunt. Link to comment
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