MarkS822 Posted October 1, 2011 Share Posted October 1, 2011 Hello everyone, Forgive me, since I have not read most of the posts in the forum. I'm sure there are many on my topic I'm about to explain. I'll give a shortened version of my situation: I've been single for about a month now. I broke up with my girlfriend of two years. Great girl but short-tempered. I couldn't handle it anymore. Anyway, since then I've been interested in a few girls here and there. Until, one night I was purusing Facebook and noticed a girl, whom I work with (but never see lol), posted a music video. It was Drake's "Marvins Room" (if you're familiar) where he basically is saying to a girl "you can do better". Anyway, I e-mailed her the song being that she told me she couldn't find it anywhere. She messaged me back saying how it seems we have a lot in common these days. Turns out she is having some issues with her current boyfriend whom she lives with. Anyway, I extended my help and told her if she ever needed to talk, to hit me up. Well, she did. One day, after work, we went out to dinner. Just us to a local place near our work where we coincidentally ran into some of our coworkers. She laughed, and said, "Oh I don't even care if anyone knows." I loved that answer! lol To me it was sort of a compliment in a way because she is so beautiful. Anyway, we sat and talked. I asked her what was going on in her relationship. She was telling me that her boyfriend has been treating her poorly, calling her a * * * * * every once in a while, all he does is smoke weed, doesn't want to go out on the town with her as much. Essentially, they've been really seemingly detached lately. She's 29 and I'm 26. So, I asked her if marriage has been brought up. She said if he had asked 7 or 8 months ago, she would've been the happiest girl in the world, but being that things have been pretty bad lately, she wouldn't as of today. She also said that he is really hesitant to committ to that constantly saying he'd do it when he's ready. I asked her if she would like to have kids, to which she said "Yeah, lots!" However, I replied by asking if she would like it if their kids came home one day and daddy was high? She told me she wouldn't appreciate that. Basically, she feels like he doesn't care about her as much anymore, he doesn't encourage her to do things shes interested in, and doesn't express himself in ways that she does on a regular basis, like leave him cute little notes around the house. Now, during this conversation, we were also flirting with one another. She told me how she loves to cook, how she makes a great dish, and how she should bring me in some for lunch one day. I mentioned how my nephew is real talented at football and how she should come check him out sometime, to which she said she would love to. She also mentioned how she may be scared of being alone if she was to break it off with him and how she wouldn't be able to afford to live on her own. I told her, if she were to be single, she should give me a call sometime. She gave me a playful "why?" and I said because I'd be interested in seeing you. She was also going into detail about her family, telling me how I'd like them, and asking me about mine. She asked me how far I lived from work. That was an odd question to me. I wasn't sure what to make of it. Regardless, there was some flirting. She told me I'm like a piece of meat at work to alot of women and a lot of them think I'm "hot". We ended up talking for about a little more than 3 hours. At the end of the night, she told me how much she would love to do this again and how "we shouldn't do this every week, but how about every other week?". I also gave her my number but told her it was because I wanted her to have it in case she had no one else to rant to, as she told me her friends have been hearing it for a while. We walked out, I walked her to her car, we hugged and she kissed me on my cheek and that was that. Since then we've been talking just a bit more than usual via work e-mail. I didn't e-mail her today just to see if she would, which she did towards the end of the day. I've been trying hard not to text her, and I haven't really. Although I did tonight knowing she was going to her HS reunion alone and I just wanted her to know that I was thinking of her so I told her to "Have a nice and relaxing weekend!" She replied but we both kind of kept it short. I'm going to go the rest of the time not intiating contact and seeing what she does. She did ask me if I would mind getting "drunk texts" from her. lol I didn't include everything. I'm sure I'm missing a lot of info but, thats essentially it. I've known this girl for 3 years, she is drop dead gorgeous, genuine, and has a real positive vibe. I'd love a chance to date her, but she's taken and I have to respect that. However, I'm certain she's interested in me. I just dont know what to do. Anyone have any advice for me? I'd appreciate anything. Thanks!!! Link to comment
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