solong123 Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 I'm at the stage in my healing where i wish no ill on my ex but at the same time I really don't care whether he is happy or not. Is it okay if i never get to the point of actually hoping he's happy rather than just being indifferent to the situation? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maverick44 Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 Being indifferent is where I think you want to be..... Just my opinion. Maverick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eocsor Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 I think indifference is the ultimate goal. You get to a place where you really don't care what they are up to. You don't want anything more to do with their life and they just fade into the background. I don't wish my ex wife any ill will and i hope she does OK but if she doesn't, I really don't care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aqua066 Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 When I can achieve a total and blissful state of indifference, will be a time when I know I'm fully healed... Can't wait to get there! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mesemene Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 Yup - perfectly ok and healthy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charity Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 i think its ok but possibly means that you do not love him in any way (which is ok). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fudgie Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 Indifference is fine. I am indifferent toward some of my exes, usually because I found out that they were crazy and I just don't care about them anymore. My recent ex, though, is a great guy but we just didn't work out. I wish him the best and all the happiness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arwen Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 I think indifference is the best for a long while after a break up. I feel the same as Fudgie - there is one ex that I really wish well, because I still think he's a great guy and I hope he's very happy. We didn't work. Then there are two exes about who I simply stopped caring. It was the best for me to not care (and in one case it took a long while - years - before I got to that point). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget Myself Posted October 1, 2011 Share Posted October 1, 2011 Many people think hate is the opposite of love. But the truth is that it's indifference. If you can ever really feel indifferent about someone, you never were meant to be, and you never really loved them. You can never go back once you start to feel indifferent. Some people in your life you will always just feel indifferent about, and some people you will always wonder, even slightly what is going on, how they are doing, and if they ever think of you. To feel indifferent towards an ex is to know that you were not meant to be. There should really be no greater closure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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