dark angel9 Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 I am having my first serious relationship (early 30's) and I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. We now live together. We never really had that much sex. Still, when we were dating, it was every time we saw each other. Now that we live together, it is only 2-3 times per week. I can't help but worry that it's not enough. I know that I am not his exact physical type and that doesn't help. We do love each other but I so deeply wish that he desired me more on an purely physical level. I can't help but think that that's what couples in love truly do We talked about it and he said that he has low sex drive and doesn't need/want sex every day. He actually just prefers to snuggle and cuddle. He is very physically affectionate otherwise. Is this relationship doomed? BTW it's not that I have high sex drive, it's more that I feel unattractive because I feel like he doesn't want me. I go to gym regularly and am thin and in better shape than he is... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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