Shudder Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 I've known this girl for about a month now. 3 of those weeks we have been seeing each other and have been intimate. we probably see each other around 3-4 times a week. She said she likes spending time with me. I was just wondering if there is a set time to ask someone to be your gf or not? Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 Ask her how she feels about taking the next step. There is no time frame, varies for each individual. Congrats btw. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 You have to feel the situation out, but with that being said you have to realize there is no rush. Link to comment
Shudder Posted September 29, 2011 Author Share Posted September 29, 2011 hmm ok.. anybody know of any non cheesy ways to ask the question? I'm trying to avoid the 'do you want to be my gf' line as that's so high school and corny sounding Link to comment
Shudder Posted September 29, 2011 Author Share Posted September 29, 2011 nevermind... Link to comment
Mesemene Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 Maybe something like "I'm really enjoying the time we spend together and getting to know you, and I feel at this point, I'm really not interested in seeing anyone else. How do you feel about it?" Link to comment
RitaTrue Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 Maybe something like "I'm really enjoying the time we spend together and getting to know you, and I feel at this point, I'm really not interested in seeing anyone else. How do you feel about it?" I like that one^ Also, " I believe that you're a really insertnicequalityhere, insertattractivetraithere person, and I like spending time with you, and I wanted to know if we could take this further?" Link to comment
emilybravo Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 Agreed. Just have a little chat and tell her you're interested in being exclusive. But to be honest, I'd wait a little while longer on that unless she brings it up first. You don't want to rush things. It's only been a month. Link to comment
Fudgie Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 What do you mean by "intimate"? Do you mean sex? It's up to you but for me personally, if you're seeing each other a lot AND you've had sex, then yes, I think it's time for the exclusivity talk. Link to comment
Shudder Posted September 30, 2011 Author Share Posted September 30, 2011 Agreed. Just have a little chat and tell her you're interested in being exclusive. But to be honest, I'd wait a little while longer on that unless she brings it up first. You don't want to rush things. It's only been a month. thats whats on my mind.. is it too early to ask this kinda question as we've only been seeing each other less then month right now @ Fudgie: yes sex Link to comment
Alezia Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 Yes, if you had sex, then I don't think it's too soon after a month to breech the topic. Link to comment
Shudder Posted October 3, 2011 Author Share Posted October 3, 2011 eh, turns out i was just a fling. ah no worries, thanks for the advice though Link to comment
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