Aqua066 Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 Ok. My story very simply is she left me about 7 months ago because we weren't getting along and because she met another guy. She and I went back and forth a couple of times after her fighting with the new guy... She ultimately stayed with him and left me hanging (literally left me without a word). A little over three weeks ago (after 4 months of hard NC), she came back to me again after the new dude apparently broke up with her. She apologized for what she did, missed talking to me, blah, blah, blah. We spent time together and were in constant contact via text, seeing each other at work, talking on the phone and hanging out. I was on cloud nine. Then bam! The other dude came back hard and next thing you know she drops me like a bad habit. All this talk about being friends, etc. doesn't matter anymore apparently. So what's killing me and I don't know why... is that this guy she left me for 7 months ago and again recently has A LOT OF money. He has like three cars, a Porcshe, Corvette and some other truck or something. He lives in a big ass house that apparently he designed. Now that there back together again, she's now driving his Porcshe into work... which absolutely sucks! It makes me sick to my stomach every time I see it (she drove by me today on my way to work). Now, I never, ever thought my ex was about the money until our recent contact because of the comments she made about his house, cars, his 6,000 watch, etc. It pissed me off like you wouldn't imagine. Now, she doesn't make a lot of money at all. She drives an old car, lives in a very modest apartment. But I honestly think that this girl is with this guy because of the money and the life that he can give her. Now I'm not broke by any means but I'm not in the same finacial category of this guy. It is absolutely killing me. Also, this guy is NOTHING looks wise. He's older then me by 6 years, bald and really skinny (I'm a lot more muscular, full head of hair and better looking). I know I can't ever take this girl back for all that she's done and I've gone about steps to ensure she doesn't come back like blocking her number on my phone, etc. but this is something I am having such a hard time with right now. I can't stop thinking about it!!! I hate her for leaving me for this chode! I hate her for coming back to me for her selfish reasons! and I hate her for going back to this guy for his money and throwing that damn Porcshe in my face!!! Remember it was just three weeks ago she was sleeping in my bed!! I don't know why this hurts me sooo much? Maybe its my pride or something. If she was with some poor guy I don't think it would hurt me as much. Do women really leave men for guys with more money?? How long can that last for? After her now living this beautiful rich life, how can she ever turn that down? How can I get this out of my head and over this?!?!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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