bob333 Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 I've just split with someone, she didn't have the space or time for a BF (single mum with two kids), first night we had sex she asked me what I wanted, a relationship or lots of , being a gentleman I replied 'a relationship'. I knew as soon as I said that I obligated her, I now realise I shouldn't have done it, and should have let her lead the agenda - but she was always saying 'take control' in the bedroom, so I did. Anyways - I dont think I particularly want a relationship right now - and a friendship with benefits would suit me perfectly at the moment. Any suggestions how I could steer this back round, I think friends with benefits is what we both wanted, but I'm never so sure about the lady - is that what a woman 'really' wants ? best part is we are already friends, we got on quite well, if I lose her as a friend thats fine, it wont be a huge loss for either of us, I think we both want a bit of sex and intimacy - but our lives are so busy and dont want the full on commitment stuff, just something light and fluffy. I'm hoping to pop in and see her at the weekend to pick up a book I'd left at hers. I'd like to broach the subject, as a woman I know its a more sensitive subject, any pointers for that conversation or situation ? Link to comment
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