Shylight Posted September 28, 2011 Share Posted September 28, 2011 I suffer from Vulvodynia, (vaginal pain) and mentioned to BF that the only specialist in my area who can help me is male. I remember asking him when we first got together if he cared if I saw a male doctor or now, to which his reply was: I dont like the idea of another guy touching you, but if its nesscessary, I mean fine. I asked him again recently how he felt if I made an appointment with this male specialist his exact words were: "...honestly i dont like the idea, but i know u need to get help from whoever u can... i know its completely professional... but i still dont like the idea of another man touching your * * * * * in any way... just me being stupid and possesive though... i mean come on... i dont even like the idea of any other man in the world seeing it... but like i said... the logical part of me knows u need to find help wherever u can. i feel like its purely possesive... like i dont care who the guy is... no one gets to c and touch my girl but me... i know its only to help u... but still i would hate the guy deep down in the pit of my gut. ultimately though, i just want u to get better..." I am actually the dominant partner in the relationship, so this isnt a case of me needing permission. We have a great relationship. I just think his opinion is completely ridiculous!!! quite immature as well! Guys, how do you feel about your woman getting pap smears, vaginal check-ups, or OB-GYNs from male doctors? Is it something offending, or do you see it purely professional and am unbothered by it? Link to comment
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