kaliixox Posted September 28, 2011 Share Posted September 28, 2011 hey everyone. so, i was in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. we were always so happy, and so in love. plenty of chemistry, intimacy and fun. we were best friends. last saturday, out of nowhere, he texted me saying he has too much going on in his life right now to handle a relationship and if we continue to move along he will eventually end up snapping at me and basically hating me forever. he said its not that i am doing anything wrong, just having someone around all the time is adding to his stress. i was so confused and tried calling him but he wouldnt answer, so i texted him back asking like, what the hell was he talking about!! he just kept saying he didnt see a future for us and didn't want to keep trying at the relationship. i literally have never been more shocked and confused in my life. i thought everything was fine, just the previous day he was calling me "babe" and "his love" hugging and kissing me, etc. anyway, i just let it be hoping that he was just having a rough day. didn't talk to me all day or the next day. i ended up seeing him two days later and we spoke in person. he told me he never said that he didnt see a future with me? meanwhile, he texted me saying the exact words "i don't see a future for us." still insisted he never said that and that he does see a future with me he just doesn't want to be in a relationship at this time. he said he sees a definite possibility of us getting back together one day but doesnt want it to be set in stone. i didnt want to start an argument so i didnt talk much, just let it be. but seriously, does he expect me to just wait around forever wondering when this "one day" that hell want to be with me again will come?? anyway, we spoke for about a half an hour then he gave me a hug and kiss and said goodnight. the next day i saw him again, spoke for about 15 minutes, then he told me to leave but gave me a hug and kiss again and said he loved me. at this point i was even more confused because he was acting like we were still together, but then wouldn't let me stay for more than a few minutes. same thing happened two days later. now i'm getting annoyed. the day after that, i texted him trying to talk. no answer. called him, no answer. so i texted him saying "listen, i dont know what the hell i did, but if you need a few days alone why dont you just say so?" so he texted back saying "few days would be nice." not a word since, and its been 3 days. all my friends/family keep telling me to move on, get over it, he doesnt deserve me, i will find someone else, etc. i don't even know what to do anymore. i want to be with him more than anything, and i know if he ever does want me back ill probably run right to him. but has anyone had a situation like this? because seriously i dont even know whats going on and i dont know what to do anymore. i tried texting him today because i couldnt take the silence, but no answer. =[ Link to comment
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