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what does it mean when he puts his finger in my mouth??


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my bf and i were kissing...making out n all. then there's one part where we stopped... and continuned kissing and he puts his index finger in2 my mouth..i think what i did was suckng it abit. and nibbled abit too... what was he trying 2 tell? does it mean anything? what am i supose 2 do when it happeneds again??

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my bf and i were kissing...making out n all. then there's one part where we stopped... and continuned kissing and he puts his index finger in2 my mouth..i think what i did was suckng it abit. and nibbled abit too... what was he trying 2 tell? does it mean anything? what am i supose 2 do when it happeneds again??

 

I suppose it meant he likes it. And he probably thinks you like it, too. It's quite a normal thing between two lovers.

 

Then it may recall an obvious sex act, don't you think so?

But it has not to be necessarily a request, if it's what you wanted to know

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Sucking partners fingers is quite a normal thing to happen between a couple. Its kinda weird but feels ok nevertheless. Some girl i was seeing in a sex only type of relationship seemed forever trying to get me to suck her fingers , guess she really liked it.

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Oral sex, huh? Hmm... I guess I never really thought of it like that... yeah, that makes sense. I think it indicates a sexual urge in any fashion. Not to be too graphic, during sexual activity, if my boyfriend fingers me, he'll then proceed to slip his fingers into my mouth. Or I'll suck on his fingers a bit to initiate foreplay. It really is a sign of intimacy and sexual pleasure.

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Oral sex, huh? Hmm... I guess I never really thought of it like that... yeah, that makes sense. I think it indicates a sexual urge in any fashion. Not to be too graphic, during sexual activity, if my boyfriend fingers me, he'll then proceed to slip his fingers into my mouth. Or I'll suck on his fingers a bit to initiate foreplay. It really is a sign of intimacy and sexual pleasure.

 

I never connected it to oral sex, either--maybe it's a guy thing.

 

And, to be honest, I never thought a whole lot about the finger-in-mouth thing, period; it's just one of those pleasurable gestures that people sometimes do during foreplay or sex. I wasn't aware there were all sorts of connotations and deep meanings behind it.

 

 

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I suppose there aren't ALWAYS deep feelings and intentions behind it. I think some people do it because they've been told that it's just something you do when you're being intimate. But when someone really means it, there's usually a lot of passion and desire behind it.

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I suppose there aren't ALWAYS deep feelings and intentions behind it. I think some people do it because they've been told that it's just something you do when you're being intimate. But when someone really means it, there's usually a lot of passion and desire behind it.

 

I dunno... I was never told that it was something to do, but it feels good and it's a sensual act for both the person whose finger is being sucked and the one doing the sucking... I guess I just never put so much thought into it before--it just happens as part of a normal, healthy, sexual relationship. Now, oral sex I put some thought into...

 

Dig the new avy, btw, PA.

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Hey I never said that when I put my finger in my lovers mouth that I want a BJ. I just said that it reminds me of that act and for some reason it gets my blood flowing. heehee

 

Hey oral is not something to take lightly and I am VERY serious when it comes to giving or getting. lol

 

I agree ladies that it is a sensual part of love making but, you can see the differences between the way men and women look at things. Men are visual creatures and we can associate just about anything to sex. Of course I am sure you ladies already know that from being on this forum for a while. lol

 

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Wait, wait, wait... I think I'm confused.

 

I thought we were talking about the whole finger-in-mouth deal which, to me, seemed kind of silly (no offense to anyone) because so much thought was being given to what should be a spontaneous little gesture during an intimate moment (and it's one that I don't feel is replete with emotion or hidden meanings... it feels good to have one's finger sucked on... but there are so many more significant actions that occur during intimacy than the sticking of a finger into a mouth... *shrug*)

 

But had it actually become an oral sex conversation?

 

I'm so lost.

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No I don't want to take this off topic I just added my two cents on this subject. Hey that is the way I think and I will voice my opinion about it too... lol hee hee

 

You asked what it meant and I think your going to find many different answers from both male and females. Women associate emotions and closeness with the act and I bet most guys associate a visual image with the act.

 

Remember Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars. We are so different in the way we look at the world that it is so amazing to see how you babes think. *wink*

 

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Well personally, I don't think any time is wasted thinking about it. I mean, it's a good feeling to think that someone is doing this intimate thing with you because they care, and they're sexually arroused by your presense! I mean, hey! What's so bad about that?

 

Never said there was anything bad about it... I just never thought of it as an especially intimate act, especially considering that, usually, when it happens, there are even more intimate things going on at the time...

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I guess it differs from person to person. I see every physical act I commit with my boyfriend as very intimate, but others wouldn't. There's nothing wrong with either view point, as long as everyone is having a good time! Hehehe!

 

I do as well, and I guess that's sort of where I was coming from--I don't think about each individual act because being intimate with him is something we just are, in general. We're never out together without holding hands; when we do something as benign as watching television together, we're touching somehow; just having his knee pressed against mine comforts me...

 

*sigh* Okay, 18 days till he comes back to the States from Italy....

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