suzieann Posted September 27, 2011 Share Posted September 27, 2011 There's no doubt my ex boyfriend is depressed at the moment and we've broken up or nearly broken up quite a few times during a 4.5 year relationship. This time he says he doesn't know how to feel after my abortion (which he wanted,see previous threads). I went round to see him yet again yesterday. We were due to move in together this month and were just finishing off the house renovation when we split up so alot of things of mine are either at his house or his parents house. I met him yesterday just to pick up a few personal things and his mood seems to have worsened since we last saw each other. The other week when i saw him he was quite accomodating and friendly towards me when i went to see him, although he started getting upset when i mentioned the relationship...yesterday was different though. He was very unfriendly and cold, even though we'd been LC for the few days after our last meet. He had no time for me yesterday and refused to answer any questions on the relationship. I asked him about his feelings for me and he refused to comment. I didnt take any of my items from the house and i said i'd leave them there incase we got back together, he didnt force me to remove them...just seemed ok with the idea. I am now back to NC. How do i know when its finally over? Would he have wanted me to move my things out if it was finally over? He's done this many many times and i believe this is just another time. I also asked if he'd told anyone about the break-up and he said no. I am now going NC for myself and hopefully to give him the space he needs to get better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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