laura40 Posted September 27, 2011 Share Posted September 27, 2011 If you read the thread I posted last week about the guy I had a date with, well now I've had 3 dates with him. Everything seems to be going well, but...there is a huge but to this. He actually told me today that he only wanted a friend....someone to talk to, cuddle with, hang out with ,make out with, have sex with etc. So basically a friend with benefits. I wasn't expecting it at all, as he showed potential to want something more. He kept saying that although he just wants a companion, he doesn't want just sex. He asked me if I was okay with this, so I said I didn't know, however I have an open mind and was glad he told me straight. Half of me is telling me to not go any further as I'm gonna end up liking him way more than he would like me. However, I am cool to have an open relationship. Another thing I dunno how to react to is when he told me he was chatting to another girl on a dating website and wanted to meet her as well. I think it was just for sex but not too sure. I really don't want to become his sex buddy and nothing else. I know a lot of people are going to say "don't meet him, he's only after one thing" but he seemed so open and honest, I don't know what to think. He did assure me that he wouldn't drop off the radar if we did end up having sex and that he would always be honest and open with me. I appreciate this. We're meeting tomorrow, geeez I don't know what the heck to do! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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