dray5150 Posted September 27, 2011 Share Posted September 27, 2011 So as a part of several previous odd events and weird excuses that oddly resembled lies, I find myself being sat down for a serious talk with my girlfriend. As a part of a previous agreement for her to be more open and forthcoming with things, she begins to describe a situation at work. Basically, coworker A passes by her cubicle to mention coworker B from the other department likes her. My girlfriend tells me she told coworker A that she is in a serious relationship and has no interest. My girlfriend mentions how things like that don't normally happen to her and she was surprised by it all. After the conversation, I tell her I am not really upset or anything it can happen to anyone and as long as it isn't some pervert or bothersome then it's fine. I of course mentioned concern of perhaps avoiding spending time with the coworker B and stuff that might be considered wrong. After the conversation, she was texting and I was curious if it related to the coworker B situation. She stated no, it was coworker/friend C. I asked if coworker/friend C knew about it, girlfriend stated no. I later discovered that not only did the coworker/friend C know about it, but there was a love letter involved. It wasn't mentioned in the conversation with the girlfriend. So, I approached her with my question regarding a love letter and she told me it was in her purse. She stated she didn't want to throw it away at work and forgot she put it in her purse. Now, the love letter was written in Spanish and my girlfriend stated having her other coworker friend translate it for her. It was definitely a love letter of a decent nature I might add. So with two contradictions, an argument happened. I feel bad for getting so angry, but feel firmly my girlfriend was keeping a trophy of a love letter in her possession and lied to me about a couple things. I have a hard time believing the forgot about it story since it took a translator to read it and she sat me down to have a serious conversation about what happened. It seems awfully like the time she left for dinner with coworkers one night, it was called dinner during the week, but in facebook, it actually was a drinking get together at a casino. The excuse was did not realize my jokes in facebook about getting trashed or drunk that weekend, friends stripping down, dancing on tables etc meant she was going out drinking with them. It was supposedly only a dinner that turned into a drunken night by chance. Either way, I appreciate any readers and responses. I have my opinions and hope to be handling things well, but it would be nice to get feedback and maybe justify my concerns? Link to comment
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