xyzzzz Posted September 27, 2011 Share Posted September 27, 2011 it's good that you broke up before she completely damages your self-confidence and self-assurance and the ability to trust. she agreed to break up, it really means she doesnt care/love you Link to comment
Snowy Posted September 27, 2011 Author Share Posted September 27, 2011 We broke up 2 times before this. Like I said, there's a guy who has been pursuing her for a LONG time. Right after the 2nd break up, she briefly dated the guy. During that time, I didn't know she was dating again but one time I saw her and the guy together randomly on the road. The guy even kissed her while walking. Anyway, I pretended I didn't see anything and moved on. Some time later, I asked her if she had gotten a new boyfriend after we broke up and she told me no. When I asked who she was walking with on that day when I saw them, she said it was her uncle. I knew this was a lie but I didn't question her further. Some time later, we developed feelings again and before we got together, I asked her again if she dated anyone during the break up period. She said no. We reconciled. But I still didn't believe it was her uncle. Last night when we broke up, I asked her, "Why did your uncle kiss you?" Her reply was, "Huh...?" (Tip: remember what you lie about so they don't catch you off guard) She then admitted that, "The guy is a friend. He likes me, and I like him." it's good that you broke up before she completely damages your self-confidence and self-assurance and the ability to trust. she agreed to break up, it really means she doesnt care/love you Yes. I asked her last night whether she would want to fix us. She basically replied along the lines of, "I can't be bothered to fix us because I don't love you anymore." ______ Oh and guess what? Since the breakup last night, my girlfriend has gone all friendly with the guy again. She is allll over his facebook, "liking" the statuses he writes about her. I wish I could get an ego-boost like that lol. Link to comment
Snowy Posted September 27, 2011 Author Share Posted September 27, 2011 It is time for me to really move on. I have been in this tangled web for way too long. Link to comment
Snowy Posted September 27, 2011 Author Share Posted September 27, 2011 I should have taken the advice given in this thread. Link to comment
sunnyv Posted September 28, 2011 Share Posted September 28, 2011 Be glad you are done with her. Link to comment
He2Him Posted September 28, 2011 Share Posted September 28, 2011 Imo she's got her own mind, if she wants to cheat on you she will. Regardless of what she says. And you can't do anything about it. The lesson to be learned here is you - focus on yourself. Link to comment
Snowy Posted October 15, 2011 Author Share Posted October 15, 2011 Wow, today I saw her going out with 3 guys... They are the ones who like her. Oh yuck. I'm bloody glad I broke up with her. She is a sluz. So low level. Link to comment
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