DLAN Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 Looking for some advice on a situation that I have never been through before and I don't know how I should go about it. I'll try to keep it as short as I can. So basically I went through a rough break up (on my end anyways) and I'm wanting to get her back. Here's the situation: Me and her dated for 3 years (senior year of high school into two years of college) and talked about marriage allot. She broke up with me about two months ago and ever since then there has been limited contact. Around a week or two after our break up I wrote her a letter saying that I still love her and I think we can work but she responded saying that she isn't wanting it right then. After that the only real contact was short texts asking when would be a good time to swap things of each others. The break up itself sucked for me. I am in the military and was scheduled to leave for a two week training school. The day before I left she called me and essentially told me she wanted time to herself. I came back with no contact from her, so I called and she then told me it was over. About a week later I wrote her the letter saying how I feel. And the next day I met up with her best friend who then informed me of the REAL reason she broke up with me. She broke up with me because she felt that she never really has gotten the chance to live life without a relationship basically. Then near a week later I find out she goes on a road trip with a guy that spent our 3 year relationship trying to do all he could to break us up and get her. With all of this I found the break up to be extremely rough and I was very pissed off for awhile (never told her I was but she might have figured out from friends). We both have been growing allot and personally I have changed tons of things about my life for the good which I'd love to be able to share with her. We both go to different universities and because of no contact I don't ever see or talk with her. Lately, even though I've deleted her from my FB, I have been seeing allot of things from her through friends and no matter how busy I stay or the people I meet I still miss her. I'm just very lost on what I should do and how I go about getting her back (if I have any chance). If there's any advice out there that could help me out it'd be much appreciated. Link to comment
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