Fudgie Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 I'm looking for some people's thoughts/experiences on this. Not too sure what to think. I've had 2 previous partners, both small, about 3''. Not a problem. I use tampons a lot but never used a dildo, not into "excessive" fingering. I used to swim, ride horses, etc. When I lost my virginity, I never experienced any bleeding, only some pain. When my current boyfriend and I had sex for the first time, it HURT so much, in the first position. I felt like a "ripping". It hurt MORE than when I lost my virginity years ago. He is 6-7 inches. He was not being very "aggressive" at first and lubrication was not a problem at all. We had done a lot of foreplay, plus oral. Afterward, I got up to urinate and there was some blood. There was also a little blood in the bed sheet. I determined that the blood was coming from the inner part of my vagina, not "deep down" from the cervical area. I was not on my period. I didn't experience any sort of inflammation or uncomfy-ness, necessarily. Just some blood and that initial PAIN. We continued to have sex a LOT after that, after I cleaned up and it felt great. Still getting used to that "hugeness" but it was really enjoyable. Is it possible for one's hymen to rupture even AFTER they've had sex before? I'm looking online and can't find much info at all. My boyfriend was a virgin and doesn't have a clue either. I'm told "When you have sex for the first time, you get some pain, maybe bleeding, and your hymen breaks." So how come I have experienced this later? It's weird to think that by SOME people's definitions, I may have still been a "virgin" until he and I slept together. I felt "down there" and it does feel a bit different. Just a tad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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