changeacomin Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 I'm feeling worse than ever. Really missing him. Just want to contact him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aminaSa Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 it gets better im in week 5,,,i dont have any need to contact him anymore! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thorshammer Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 I am in week I DONT REMEMBER. Nah, I think week 11 or something. I am fine, a few memories here and there. Its a cycle, just go through with it and know that its all perfectly normal, and know that you have the strength to go through it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EgoJoe Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 I'm in my second fourth week of NC. I have a few other 3 weeks of NC etc. It does get better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
changeacomin Posted September 25, 2011 Author Share Posted September 25, 2011 I don't feel strong. At all. I just wrote him an email and my finger is wavering over the "send" button. It's too difficult. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julcic Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 I wrote texts, emails , diary and facebook messages and didnt send any......6 weeks of NC and Im so glad I didnt!! It does get easier honestly xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incaangelique Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 I never feel happy about breaking NC. Maybe type your thoughts here instead. What is that you want to tel him so badly? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melting Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 Posting or doing a journal really helps with NC. I know it is hard, but it does get easier. For me I challenge myself, I look forward to posting in the "No Contact Challenge" every time I put another day in there it puts a smile on my face, cos I have succeeded. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
changeacomin Posted September 25, 2011 Author Share Posted September 25, 2011 What do I want to tell him? That I miss him. That even though he no longer wants to be in a committed relationship, maybe we can just still see each other sometimes. I know. It's pathetic. The last time I saw him (when he came to collect his things) I was so nonchalant, so accepting of it all. Now I can't help thinking he's gone away thinking I'll perfectly ok with the whole thing. And that maybe he might have contacted me if I'd shown that I cared more about things ending. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madine Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 Nah, you know that's not true. He's not going to come back out of pity. Neither should you want him to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hastyhand Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 The posters above are absolutely right. I have been NC for more than two weeks..in row..but LC for a longer period... and it does get better eventually. Just hang in there..I even dont get the toughts of contacting her..cause I know ..if she wanted to..she would find a way to do it herself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thorshammer Posted September 26, 2011 Share Posted September 26, 2011 In simple words, dont pull someone who is pushing you away. Even simpler, dont pull what pushes. It will just push him further away. He needs to miss you and make the decision on his OWN, he cant do that if you are still there showing that you have him on your mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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